Yuanshi County marriage customs

Hebei Yuanshi County marriage customs only than the Baoding side of the more talk is also divided into people's basically universal sometimes also according to the old family customs not necessarily and you say some general it!

Now the wedding gift is 31,800 yuan. Meaning that the three families together with the issue of good conditions is 100001 Miles pick 1 ah and then the woman returned to the male side of the 10,000 yuan ranging from the same time the man's family to bring the hardware are generally male family to buy a house women to buy electrical appliances to prepare for the bedding

Some people speak on the old traditions of the engagement gift but also have six: six pounds of meat (a cut), six fish with Lin, six bottles of wine, six pounds of sugar (six boxes can be), six zhang fans (red line), six pairs of fans (six boxes of red line), six pounds of sugar (six boxes of red line). Six catties of vermicelli (tied up with red thread), six catties of snacks (six boxes are also available).

Each of the above bride price (except meat, as the saying goes, the daughter is the meat on the mother's body, it is not to be given to others) is usually the woman's family will return some to the man's family, two or four copies of each.

Additionally, there are other things, engagement ring, gift money (also called engagement money), two red baggage, two red belts, at least two sets of clothes (as the saying goes, the mother-in-law's coat to the old), the woman's family should be prepared for the male side of a new pair of shoes (called the father-in-law shoes).

Engagement ceremony of men and women to change their names to Mom and Dad, both parents should prepare to change the money (600 ~ 1000 yuan). Generally before noon the man's family should arrive at the woman's home, at noon the woman's family should host the guests of the man's family dinner, after the meal, the man's family should return to their own homes before sunset. This is the end of the engagement ceremony.

There are more customs in Yuanzhi County:

Don't turn around and wave when the bride goes out

Don't cry when the bride goes out, it is unlucky on one hand, and on the other hand, it will ruin the make-up

When getting off the bus, the groom and the bride should get off from the same side, not separately, or else it will be unlucky

It is not advisable to attend the wedding if you are pregnant

Eating dumplings at the bride's house When you eat dumplings at the bride's house, you should leave an even number in the bowl and eat the noodles, and then the man asks if the noodles are raw, and the bride has to say "raw," which means a baby.

And then I'll talk to you about the procedure:

About 12 months after getting engaged

Buy an engagement ring

Choose a religious ceremony or a folk ceremony

Choose the place or venue for the ceremony and ask for the Aristocrats' Wedding Handbook online

The two of them agree on the form of the wedding, but they don't know how it will be done.

Two people agree on the form and theme of the wedding

Decide on the best date and time for the wedding

Select the best man and ushers (you will need about one usher for every 50 guests)

If the wedding is in a church, make an appointment first and then make sure that every detail is okay, (credentials, banns, fees, pianist, choir, flowers and the rest of the ceremonies)

If you want a civil wedding, confirm every detail with the registrar and then get witnesses.

Arranging the wedding reception

6 months before the wedding

Preparing the guest list, you'll need the help of your parents in this matter to make sure you haven't pulled a guest down

Deciding on catering for the wedding reception, especially the menu

Hiring a DL band or other entertainment

Ordering costumes for the groom and the male tribesmenl Addressing the wedding Accommodation and food on the night of the day

Choose the type of flowers, the party and some minor details

Get a photographer and videographer

Arrange for wedding insurance

Decide on the date of the honeymoon and make preparations

Make sure that your passport is valid, and then get another visa if you need it

If you get pregnant on your honeymoon, now's the time to Prepare

Prepare a check for the honeymoon

Three months before the wedding

Discuss the invitations with your fiancée and write and send them out now

Start choosing the gifts

Discuss the ceremony and the order of the ceremony

Discuss with the pianist the songs to be chosen

Order A list of the order of the ceremony

Buy wedding rings and arrange insurance

Write thank-you notes to your friends when they receive gifts

Solve the problems of accommodation and food for friends coming from other cities. It's best if you can solve these problems in the invitations, especially if you want to get married on a holiday, so you should tell people about it earlier

Book wedding balloons

The father of the bride and the best man have their speeches ready

Buy clothes for the honeymoon trip, luggage

A month before the wedding

Prepare the seating cards

If you want to get married in a church, find out about the taboos beforehand

Make sure that everyone attending understands their duties, and arrange to have the best man, maid of honor, and ushers attend one at first

Arrange to have the best man, maid of honor, and ushers attend one at a time. Make arrangements for a rehearsal dinner with the best man, maid of honor, and ushers

Confirm the number of people attending and the menu requirements

Start writing speeches

Arrange a men's-only dance with the best man

Buy gifts for the bride, the best man, the parents, and the ushers

One week before the wedding

Take your seating suggestions to the ushers

Get a haircut

Get the bride, the best man, the parents, and the ushers to have a good time and a good time.

Get a haircut

Prepare your honeymoon luggage and buy the essentials

Make a schedule for the day of the wedding

If you want to use a car for the honeymoon, check to make sure everything is in good shape

Check the honeymoon plans one last time

Arrange for a group of people to be in charge of returning rented clothes after the wedding

Get the clothes you're taking with you and bring the boxes you'll be using for the party

Give the best man a set of spare keys to the other cars and any money you'll be paying for during the church ceremony

Send the media any articles or photographs you'd like to have published

Make a copy of your marriage license

Thank both your parents for all the help they've given you

The wedding is a great opportunity for you to get the most out of your wedding. p>★ Wedding Special Tips ★

1, try not to set your wedding on a double holiday, most people want to relax and unwind on a double holiday, if you hold your wedding at this time they will have to choose between their vacation and your wedding. If you really want to have a wedding ceremony on a double holiday, then you should be prepared to spend the whole weekend entertaining your guests.

2. Don't forget to write wedding vows. Doing so is not out of subservience, but it can express your dedication to each other's love and add luster to your wedding.

3, Don't get cold feet between the ceremony and the wedding reception.

4, prepare vehicles to transport guests who have traveled a long way from the ceremony site to the wedding banquet site;

5, don't let the DJ play the music too loud during the wedding banquet;

6, discuss with the caterer of the sprinkles to leave time intervals between each course;

7, don't ignore the guests' dietary taboos, you can introduce some special dishes;

8, for the guests to arrange seating, put a number on the table to remind the guests to sit in their places, arrange seating to the groom's guest seats and the bride's guest seats in the same row, so as not to fall into the suspicion of engaging in division.

9, according to the specific time of the wedding to arrange their own meals, the morning of the wedding need to eat something or will be brunch and make a meal; afternoon wedding will eat a little bit of pre-dinner snacks or a small amount of food; evening wedding can eat a sufficient dinner, catering sprinkles of people can help you to choose the right recipe;

10, do not omit the champagne.

11, at the banquet, you two couples should be around between the sprinkles to talk to family and guests;

12, let the waiter to assist the photographer and caterer to complete the work task, they are sure to be happy to lend a hand;

13, with your fiancé to discuss where to go to the honeymoon, the way of accommodation, how long you are going to stay, these are the specific are always To consider;

14, do not spend all the savings on this honeymoon spin, choose to travel in the off-season to attract tourism or to a resort where everything is included, this can save you a sum of money;

15, according to the ability to do, the wedding date is urgent, your body will be overloaded, when the physical strength of the overdraft, pay attention to the signals it sends out to pay attention to their own bodies;

16, do not be overwhelmed by the preparation for the wedding. Such as buying food and other tedious matters into several parts to complete, from time to time to friends and family to make a phone call to spice things up, as Saturday are minded to buy clothes, to lie to the caterer sprinkles, you may wish to take a break from your busy schedule to go to the last movie, to relax;

17, pay attention to the rest, this stage of the stress is more, you need more sleep, to be flexible, if the morning is always feeling fatigue

Then you sleep nine to ten hours a day, do not take the guest list as a pillow book, before going to bed to find a recent bestseller or what a relaxing magazine to spend time;

Mastering these treasures, your wedding will be all the way unimpeded, coupled with our carefully directed, I believe that your wedding wedding wedding show, will be a successful conclusion, in the minds of each participant to leave unforgettable memories!

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★ How to choose bridesmaids and groomsmen ★

1. The selection of suitable groomsmen must be careful and sloppy. Your close college friends, brothers, cousins and even elementary school classmates you haven't seen in years may all rush to be the best man, but no matter who the best man is, he should at least have some knowledge of the bridesmaids. If you are worried about how to choose the right best man, take a look at the advice we offer--

2. The best man and maid of honor should be equal in number

The number of best men can be determined according to personal preferences and there is no particular There is no limit to the number of best men, and it is customary to keep the groomsmen and bridesmaids the same for both men and women, although this is entirely up to you and your financial ability to decide. If you want to have fewer groomsmen but don't want to offend your friends or male relatives, you can have them as ushers, who can usher the guests in their regular gowns like everyone else. That way, you can do it without offending anyone and avoid a bad reputation for poor hospitality.

3. Siblings can do it

Choosing a best man isn't up to you alone. Your bride may already be interested in having her favorite brother be her best man, so as long as the guy isn't a pain in the ass, you're better off letting him be your best man. Conversely, if you want your closest sister to be the maid of honor, the bride will agree. There's no need to follow tradition in this case, and, if you're an open-minded couple, your sister can be on your side as the traditional best man while the bride's brother accompanies her.

4. The responsible one is the right one

Who exactly is the best man? The best man should have some class because he'll be giving the toast at the reception and you certainly don't want him to say anything inappropriate, he should be responsible because he'll be keeping the rings that will be handed over to the bride by the groom, and most importantly, he must have a good sense of humor because the groom's pre-wedding bachelor party is being organized by the best man. Choose an active member of your lives as your best man, and if you don't realize until the night before the wedding that you don't really have much **** to say to your best man, it will be too late. What you need at this point is not nerves, but a reassuring best man to accompany you before, during and after the wedding. Keep this in mind and you won't go wrong with someone who forgets the rings, gets drunk at the wedding or has his mind elsewhere as your best man. You can breathe a sigh of relief after this step

★Wedding officiant ★

Nowadays, in weddings, there is usually a well-spoken officiant who performs the solemn wedding ceremony for the couple and creates a joyful and peaceful atmosphere with his short words. To make the new couple feel happy and sacred, so that hundreds of guests *** with the infected wedding enthusiasm, is not a simple matter.

So choosing an excellent host becomes the core of the success of the wedding. In determining the wedding officiant you must not hearsay, it is best to know more about the person's intuitive information, such as videotape information, or see with their own eyes is best, so that you know whether his style of hosting is suitable for you, in order to make trade-offs and put forward the requirements. Thereafter, before the wedding, you can best meet with the host and he discussed the wedding procedures and content, and finally put forward your specific requirements, I believe that a temperament and elegant, funny and humorous host will certainly add joy to your wedding atmosphere.

Wedding photography - to stay in every eternal moment scene layout - the magician of the wedding

Wedding ceremony procedures

1. Master of Ceremonies announced the start of the wedding, music, the newcomer to the entrance

2. All the family and friends of the newcomer sprinkled with flowers, the newcomer to the stage in the wedding marching song step by step

3. Flower girl for the newcomer to present flowers to bless the newcomer

4. p>4. Speech by the bridegroom

5. Witnesses presenting marriage certificates to the newlyweds

6. Newlyweds presenting tokens to each other and drinking a cup of wine

7. Parents addressing the guests

8. Newlyweds presenting tea to their parents

9. Worshipping heaven and earth

10. Newlyweds delivering speeches of thanks to the guests